Being valuable to a company is useful. Being valuable without the company is power.
Believe in yourself, and you will be unstoppable. – Emily Guay
Best mental reset I’ve learned: If your mind is loud – Write. If your mind is empty – Read. If your mind is racing – Walk. If your mind is tired – Sleep. If your mind is sharp – Build. Most problems are just mismatched energy. Get the inputs right, the rest follows.
Beware of snakes in the grass. Gotta watch your step!
Big dreams need big sacrifices.
BITTER TRUTH: No matter how good you are, how nice you are, how kind you are, or how caring you are, if you are in the wrong place, you are never valued and appreciated.
Boundaries are healthy. Establish yours, and enforce them!
Bravely step up and claim your space.
Brick by brick. Day by day. A win is a win.
By the time the realize your worth, you’ll be worth more.
Become an advocate for losing people who can’t treat you right.
Become someone no one thought you could be. Not even you.
Become the mirror they don’t like to look at.
Being able to identify, whip out, and masterfully set into place whatever boundary you require will help you cultivate the staying power that may have eluded you in your habit attempts in the past.
Being alone is a power very few can handle.
Being disliked by people with ugly energy is divine protection.
Being hated by losers is the price you pay for not being one.
Being nice without boundaries attracts exploitation. You are giving benefits without making behavior accountable. The other side learns they can receive your patience, forgiveness, attention, and effort without paying the price of respect. Kindness without structure becomes a subsidy for bad behavior.
Being ready is a myth. You start. You suck. You figure it out. You get better.
Being true to yourself may lead to loneliness, but it’s worth it.
Be careful what you give your energy to. There are people trying to take it from you all day long.
Be careful what you tolerate. You are teaching people how to treat you.
Be careful who you trust. Salt and sugar look the same.
Be content that you are breathing, and can go touch grass.
Be curious, not judgmental.
Be grateful for the people that pour wisdom into you. That wisdom didn’t come without pain.
Be humble, and never think you are better than anyone else. We all leave this world with nothing.
Be intentional about the words you receive. If you’re exposed to any toxic, icky, or bullying words that might throw you off track, turn off the television, put down your phone, close the document, remove yourself, ignore it, or if you’re stuck in the presence of a negative blowhard, drown them out by repeating your mantra over and over in your head.
Approach the start of each day with something in mind and end the day with one word – DONE!
As bad as it was the things they did to you, it could be much worse, and even possibly a tragedy, if you don’t pick yourself up and move on. Your number one responsibility to yourself despite any obstacles has always been to do your best.
As different as every single person is, is as different as the ways people choose to “turn the other cheek”. Be careful who you try to control.
As long as there’s life, there’s hope.
Ask yourself what true peace to you means. If you find the answer, you have all the guidance you need to find happiness. If you don’t find the answer right away, that’s fine. Take the time you need to retreat away from other people and responsibilities as much as you can to give yourself time to find clarity. Find a routine that works best for you. Don’t try to confine yourself to other people’s interests or beliefs, as your journey to success is your own to experience.
At some point, Americans bought into the idea that they needed a house with a bedroom for each kid. Then they needed a playroom or a basement fully fitted out with entertainment. Then each kid needed a car when they turned 16. Of course each kid needs a $1000 smartphone. Of course each kid needs ipads, laptops, gaming systems. Mom is so frazzled by their schedules she no longer cooks – $$$$ is spent each month on eating out. Oh, and let’s not forget the sports money drain – league sports, travel, extra coaching, etc. Send your kids outside and let them touch grass!
Attention is an investment. What people repeatedly discuss often shapes how they think and live.
Average people talk about people, while high performing people talk about ideas.
Avoid negative people. They have a problem with every solution.
An athlete won’t judge you for working out. A millionaire won’t judge you for starting a business. A musician won’t judge you for trying to sing a song. It’s always the people going nowhere that have something to say.
And I now know that all those times you visited in the past, you brought your fake ass shit into my home, and I was being played for a fool. You were only there to see what you could take back to talk shit about behind my back.
And suddenly I didn’t care to be talked to, texted back, liked, disliked, invited, or talked about. It’s quiet and that is finally enough.
Anti-social behavior is a trait of intelligence in a world full of conformists. – Nikola Tesla
Any fears, doubts, or worries you have about yourself were learned from the people around you, and from your own temporary failures. They are not the truth.
Any time you worry that someone is going to judge you, that is really just you judging yourself.
Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new. – Albert Einstein
Anything worth upgrading in your life is going to be challenging, or else you would’ve already upgraded it.
Appreciate every small win life gives you. These small wins will add up to a great sense of joy.
All of mother nature’s creatures are designed to fully flourish before they drop dead.
All work and no play truly makes life unbalanced. Sometimes, beyond the deadlines, meetings, responsibilities, and pressure, it is important to relax, laugh, connect and enjoy good moments with great people.
All you Christians talking shit about gays, and who likes to belittle others because you don’t like something about them, don’t forget they get taxed in the USA to support funding for the same things you do, including feeding your loud and fugly ass kids on SNAP/EBT, and free lunch meals. They’re also your military, doctors, lawyers, mechanics and so on. You can believe whatever you want to, but you look like a fucking idiot trying to indoctrinate with hate. Please fuck off with it. Man invented and wrote about thousands of gods but only yours is real, but has never been proven. None of them have. You look crazy!
Allow yourself to shine without the desire to be seen.
Although narcissists appear ultra confident, their grandiosity only serves as a mask to hide their fragile self-esteem.
Always find time for the things that make you happy to be alive.
Always remember someone’s effort is the reflection of their interest in you.
Always remember this; Sometimes when things seem like they are falling apart, they might be actually falling into place!
ALWAYS remember who showed you hate, and who showed you love. Also learn to tell when those who say they love you the most, may not, and that’s it’s possibly a lie.
Always remember, people know exactly what they’re doing.