I know somebody who needs to stop buying things. ME!!! I just found a suitcase I keep forgetting about, Old Navy clothes, Walmart clothes, and laptop bags I’ve never used or worn, all new stuff, and I just got another box of winter clothes in the mail yesterday. All because I love shopping, and catch all the sales, and I need stuff that I don’t really need. Oh, and Office Depot as well. How many artificial plants can your home hold? I’m trying to find out. It took a mandatory apartment inspection this morning to motivate me to pick up all of the bags of canned food I’ve been dragging in and leaving in the floor. I’m really not lazy. I just don’t see why the cans can’t sit wherever I put them until I’m ready to eat lol. Anyway, my kitchen is better organized now, until next week when I drag more groceries in, I guess. I need to do better though. I almost forgot to put up my freezer and fridge items that I left in the floor, and that would not be good after I wrote about expensive groceries yesterday. I am behind on my blog posts. I fell asleep last night when I was supposed to be doing my work, and then the apartment inspection this morning took away my morning time for blogging. I will get caught up soon though. Maybe tonight. I’ve got lots of stuff I want to share, so I will be blowing up your email box with new posts soon. Have a great Tuesday today!!
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Shout Out To The Independent People
What’s the most underrated life skill?
Simply put, I think independence doesn’t get enough recognition.
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I Don’t Know How A Lot Of Companies Are Staying In Business In This Economy
I have a Youtube Premium subscription (and if you don’t, I highly recommend it), and so I watch a ton of videos all day and night. I don’t buy cable tv, nor subscribe to the Netflix, Hulu, or anything similar. If I’m awake, I’m probably seeing at least one Youtube video every hour. I may go watch a free Tubi movie sometimes. Among some of the topics I watch videos about, are those where content creators are bringing awareness to business loss, especially among fast food places. I myself have cut out a lot of fast food buying, and try to stick to whatever I buy at the grocery store. Just like everyone else, I’ve been watching my weekly grocery cart contain less items while the cost gets higher for months, actually a couple of years now (why do I feel like I already wrote about this – I probably have – oh well). I know I’m not telling anybody anything they don’t already know on that topic. This morning however was a real slap in the face. I picked all of my normal items, and many of them showed mark downs on the new digital tags. I bought about 8 canned food items, 3x 1 liter Sprite, 3 Starbucks 40oz Caramel Machiatto (I started buying those in place of K-cups because I got too lazy to mix up my own damn coffee lol), some precooked sausage patties, hot dog and hamburger buns, eggs, milk, and. few other fridge and freezer items. I barely filled the bottom of the buggy (cart for you prissy people), and spent just as much, or more for less than last week. I am getting sick of it. This is definitely a complaint, but not a complaint because I can’t afford the rise in cost, but because the rise in cost is bullshit. My slow ass figured something out at the gas pump this morning though. Last week the gas was higher. This week it was lower. Last week I limited my gas purchase to $40 for what I thought I could get away with for a week, and I made it through the week. This morning I bought a $45 fill up. The lesson learned is maybe I don’t always need to fill up my vehicle completely full, and I need to set a weekly gas purchase on a budget I choose instead when the gas prices are so high, and stay off of the highway as much as possible. For years I have just let the gas pump go until it stopped on it’s own. I think with this economy however, a change is in order, and I need to monitor more closely how full my vehicle stays from week to week on a price limit I choose.
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Better Off Alone In Most Cases
What’s a personal mantra or philosophy you live by?
I hate fake people, so I give them as little, to no access to me as possible. I would rather be alone than to be disrespected.
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I’m Alive Right Now!
What’s a moment in your life that made you feel truly alive?
Bundle the last 6 years into a moment for me that definitely has me feeling alive. By alive, I’m led to believe we’re talking about happiness. I am feeling happy, but it has come at some costs involving escape from narcissism in my immediate family, going no contact with them, being independent, transforming my finances and building credit, working every single night since September 2023, and only missing one of them because the highway got closed due to snow (that’s what they do in Alabama because we can’t drive in it). I am currently feeling at the top of my game right now at keeping everything in order. Bills are paid, I am single, I have this new blog that is taking off rather nicely. As of today, in 19 days since starting, I have 31 subscribers, and over 1,000 views. It’s been 3 years since I went no contact with my family after I was mishandled and disrespected, and every day since has been brain roller coaster, but I’ve been finding something to be happy about every week. So yeah, I’m definitely feeling alive right now.
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Grant My Dream To Be A Self Supporting Blogger And Content Curator
The genie grants you a wish. What is it?
I want nothing more than to be able to work from home independently, or at least make it a side hustle to earn income from my blogging, ebook publishing, and content curation. If I could earn enough to pay the rent and utilities, that would make me happy. So that is what I would wish for. I would still keep my night job so that I could build the bank savings.
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I Learned Most From Me
Which relationship has taught you the most about yourself?
I used to let things slide too much. I didn’t have respect for myself, therefore allowed people, including family to disrespect me. Now, I would rather live the rest of my life alone and unbothered in peace than to be trapped in chaos.
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Truth first!
Do you believe in karma?
When it comes to the universe, I believe in truth before I believe in karma, or anything else, including people’s varying opinions about the existence of “God”, or a god. Truth has never failed me. With all of that said, yes I very much believe in karma. Whatever the rules of karma is exactly, I have no clue, but I strive to treat people the way they treat me. It may not be the exact same way, but if you respect me, I’ll respect you. If you don’t, be ready for crazy because I ain’t the one.
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